It is okay if you want to conform to what the society sees as the 'right' way of living.
Even if there is no clear right or wrong way to live.
You just live.
But don't condemn me for choosing to live my life how I want to live it.
I don't do it to you, I expect the same courtesy in return.
P.S. you incessantly complain about your hate for bandwagonners, but you are one of them. Be who you want to be, not who society expects you to be.